In my morning readings I often read for women searching for their soul mate. I too spent a life time looking for my favorite mate. I sought men of identical interests, stimulating conversation, a hint of drama and stunning good looks. To my disappointment these were often the mates who competed with me, grew bored easily and said goodbye.
After raising one son and setting him free to the blue sky I realized I was perfectly happy to live alone. I`d given the soul mate thing more then enough tries. To my complete clarity I realized I was my own best soul mate. I bought a new house, devoted all work as a full time Intuitive and the phone rang happily with friends and clients. I finally gave as much time to those I called "sisters" as I used to give my men.
A year later it was as if I was a babe magnet. My new attitude brought interest that hours applying make up and the perfect out fit could not compete with. A very basic man came in to my life totally unlike what I was attracted to. He allowed me to shine without competition. Our silences were comfortable. As I read my Spiritual books he read his Tom Clancy. Our first fight was over Politics. Many years younger then myself he moved in one day with his weights and a Philodendron plant named Frank. To my complete shock....I tried a different size of man on then the old ones I couldn't live with out. Is it perfect? No. But after 10 years I have never felt happier. And a fulfilled psychic gives clear readings.
Can a Liberal Spiritual Intuitive live with a Republican NASCAR Red Neck. Oh yes. Has my idea of what a soul mate changed? Yes....and here is what I believe mine is:
1} Someone who can tell me I am beautiful in the morning even when I have bags beneath my eyes.
2} Someone I can sit quietly beside that won't think I am boring if I don't want to talk.
3} Someone that can read in bed beside me their book as I read mine.
4} Someone that loves to laugh and joke with me, as well as love our animals like kids.
