Did you ever as a child think that maybe one day you would payback all those mean things a bully did to you? Sure you did. We all did. The rational thought at the time was " I can't do anything about it now, but just wait till I get older." This life-learning experience is repeated every day by almost every child in the world.
Also, at the that time, did you feel that the person that bullied you was thinking "If you think I am a bully now, just wait till I get older." Most likely not. Even the bully thinks they are not or will be a mean spirited individual in their adult life.
Big Bullies that grew up from being little bullies are all around and its not just one person you may know. We can find large organizations that have done their fair share of rude behavior.
Learning fear management skills are a way to help curb the bully growth process. Both bully and the bullied need to understand at an early age that if you catch on fire "STOP DROP & ROLL," look both ways before" CROSSING the STREET." And now there's a counterpart to deal with bullying behavior!
With effective management, little Bullies learn that their actions are not acceptable, and children that are being bullied have a better way to react by becoming a part of a character team that helps children.
Life Lessons begin early and we teach are children to swim, the ABC's and social skills. There are excellent story book & sing-a-long songs CDs that will help parents and teachers talk about bullying and child safety to their children and students.
Little Bullies do not always grow up to be Big Bullies , especially when they can learn fear management skills.
